Safe and easy is dull,dull dull. Try to be more spontaneous and adventurous in your everyday life, and everyone will find you more attractive.
play in the rain, pick a spot on the map and tell your significant other that they have 20 minutes to get ready because your going there, purchase a really last minute flight to somewhere you have never been, have sex on the beach, build a raft and have a picnic on it going down a river, break a guinness world record for something silly, like world’s biggest wad of chewing gum lol something silly and get your friends in on whatever silliness comes to you.